What Would Jess Do?!? It's been over 3 months since I've been on a real date. As I sit here considering getting back into the game I come at it with so many questions and to some degree demands. Feisty you say?!? Hell to the yeah. Ladies if you don't keep it real from the beginning the reality is your wasting your time. Funny how I've heard Jlo's "If You Had My Love" a million times but it wasn't until now that it hit me....If you had my love what would you do?!? So chicas don't be afraid to ask questions. I'm not saying to go cray on a guy but keep it real from the start and avoid the drama/pain. The beauty of getting to know someone is you have nothing to lose. There are no REAL feelings involved so if he or she doesn't appreciate what you bring to the table keep it moving!